What’s your attention style relating to your preteen or teen child? Positive unconditional: You pay attention to the ‘being’ of the child. E.g., “I love that you are my daughter.” Positive conditional: You pay attention to a specific task or behaviour that …
A young girl asked this question at Kilakarai this week, “Such power behind your words. What made you into you?” I could only say, “My wounds made me into me. They opened up those parts of me that I would …