A 15-year-old asked me this question on a Zoom workshop: “I love my friends. But I am ceased with jealousy when they perform better than me. This affects my performance, complicates my friendships, and makes me a quitter.”While I am …
What’s your attention style relating to your preteen or teen child? Positive unconditional: You pay attention to the ‘being’ of the child. E.g., “I love that you are my daughter.” Positive conditional: You pay attention to a specific task or behaviour that …
Whenever people hear about a parenting workshop, the immediate thought that comes to their mind is, “I don’t need it. I am already doing everything I can.” And they are not wrong! For most people, parenting means providing; providing things, …